Here I am on a beautiful Saturday doing laundry, babysitting my husband's friend's dog while he goes 4-wheeling with some girl i've never met before clinging onto the back of him---why can't she just ride with her "boyfriend" who i've also never met?---and he never even invited me to go with!!! Never texted me to let me know he was going anywhere. My husband NEVER asks me to do anything fun with him, like go out to eat or go to the movies. He enjoys fishing, while I don't really like it that much. To be honest, I don't really like his friend Scott because he's a drug dealer and he is a woman beater who treats his current girlfriend like shit. He also uses our lawn as a storage area for his piece of shit wheeler which he rarely comes over to ride (this is the first time this year he's ridden it and it's July). Honestly when my husband is with his friends, he acts like an idiot, blowing donuts and bumping his friend's 4 wheeler, doing wheelies...he's actually run into a tree before with his other wheeler. I guess I just wish that he would have as much fun with me as he does with his friends. I also wish he would offer to do a load of dishes at the very least. We went to vacation to Maine just last week, and the whole time he complained about how tired he was because he did not sleep well in the tent. All he wanted to do was trap crabs when he was with me, and he doesn't even like seafood. He was pretty much only happy after we got home, and he said the only reason he was going on the trip was because I wanted him to go with me, that he didn't really want to go since he doesn't have vacation time and had to take two unpaid days off from work (he used his vacation time to pay off a large balance with interest that he was accumulating at his workplace). I am always getting the shitty end of the stick--I'm tired of it! I want a husband who enjoys doing the kinds of things that I want to do. He doesn't even like coming over to my side of the family's gatherings, yet when it comes to his own family's gatherings, I always like going. It feels like he doesn't like me.
Declared by Cindy on Saturday, July 7, 2012